So many people feel separate from love. What if I told you that you ARE love already so you can never be separate from it? How would you start showing up, if you knew yourself as love?
When you start to tune in intuitively you can see clearly that people are in varying degrees of fear or love. Does fear keep you from being open in love?
Fear is contraction, and love is expansion.
So the key then, is to be in love, all the time.
When someone asks you how you are, tell them you are in love.
When someone hurts you, love them and their fear.
When someone lies to you, love them and their fear.
When someone slights you, love them and their fear.
When someone crushes you, decimates you, rips your heart out and smashes it into a million pieces, love them and their fear.
By loving them you extend love to yourself.
By seeing them in the energy of love, it is returned to it.
Is it easy? Shit no.
Your ego, will scream and shout, pout and rage. You will have ample opportunity to love all your perceived “negative” emotions ( side note – they are just emotions – do yourself a favour and drop the positive or negative and just FEEL them).
Marianne Williamson said “Until we have seen someone’s darkness we don’t really know who they are. Until we have forgiven someone’s darkness, we don’t really know what love is”.
That’s why the first fight in a relationship – can be AWESOME – you get to see how the other person shows up from their shadow side. And vice versa.
Every moment is an opportunity to go deeper into love by concentrating on it, ESPECIALLY IN THE FACE OF CONFLICT. This is when your loving focus is required the most.
Loving people who are lovable is easy. Loving people who are arseholes is an amazing spiritual practice.
I practice being in love while waiting at airports, in an Uber, on the plane: being the energy of love so all I need to do is share myself with others. I’ve also had plenty of practice at loving people who are unkind. They are my deepest teachers and I love them for that.
I experience a LOT of bliss focusing on love. Consistently.
If you’re ready to move into deeper levels of love, bliss and abundance email me and we can arrange a time to chat. Connection creates transformation.
Sending you love and light,
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